Amir and Baba

In the first four chapters, I know a little bit of the relationship between Baba and Amir---they were not so healthy relevance. Even though Amir and Baba had some emotional problems , Amir still respect his Baba on some degree. Just like the relationship between Hassan and Amir, Baba and Amir's relationship was complicated. On one hand, Amir liked his Baba---he wanted to show himself in front of Baba, on another hand, Amir hated Baba---because of Baba's love to Hassan. May be Amir's feeling was not hate, it was just the envi of Hassan.Sometimws, Amir could not secide" whether I wanted to hug hiim or leap fromo his lap in mortal fear."This makes me think about my relationship with my dad--- we are not so good all the time, but we still love wach other.

In the first two chapters, there were not so many description about Amir feeling to Baba. But we can still recognize that Amir envied Hassan about Baba's love. Amir wanted his Baba to be just his "old man".We are able to see that when" Baba patted Hassan on the back, even put his arm around his shoulder.", Amir was filled with envi---this envi maybe because Amir expected his Baba's love on the nature way. What's more, on the ceremony day of the orphanage, Amir got a chance to show that Baba was his only Baba through Baba motioning his hat to Amir. Aslo, he was always wondering why Baba was so kind to Hassan, but always left him alone to have dinner . In order to get Baba's love, Amir wished all the children in the orphanage would all died along with their parents--- all thess bad imagine just because Amir loved his Baba. If I were Amir, I might have the same feeling with him. Without mum, it is a nature expect to hope to get care from dad.

Refer to Baba, he was a responsible man---to Amir and Hassan and other kids in the orphanage. When Baba decided to build an orphanage, all the people around him said his behavior was foolish. Despite the press from " the around people", Baba still finished the orphanage with his own money and emotion. Amir did feel proud of Baba about the orphanage except Baba "left him alone to have dinner". Baba never said his story to Amir, but he still love Amir---thought Amir how to be a good and successful man in the future, and thought him numerous maxis. For instance, " there is no act more wretched than stealing" or when you kill a man , you steal a life". Baba, treated Amir strict, but he strict was because of love. As far as I am concerned, I thinik Baba is a good father, not only to Amir but also to the kids in the orphanage. He spread his love and made a contribution to our soceity.

All in all, Amir and Baba had some special way to express their love to each other.Baba was strict to Amir, and almost never say some complements to Amir. As Baba's son, Amir hoped to hear some things that made him be proud of himself. They did have some emotional problems some time, but in fact they loved each other, and cared about each other. This situation makes me thinks about myself---my baba is also strict to me, and I know he wants me to be better and better, so I try my best to satisfy his hope. Sometimes, I feel boring about this" satisfy hope", but it is just a temporary feeling. Every baba and kid has some complicated time, no matter what emotional problems they have, they still love each other in their heart.